Monthly Archives: April 2005

This morning I taught my first step and sculpt classes as an employee of New York Sports Club.

I taught in a really tight t-shirt and cutoff jeans.

The CDs I used had the following songs on them:

Love Potion #9
Mamma Mia
Eye Of The Tiger
Halfway Around The World
Only In My Dreams
Fame
You Were Always On My Mind
Lay All Your Love On Me
9 To 5
I Will Survive
Ain’t No Mountain High Enough

Dancing Queen
YMCA
How Will I Know
Ghostbusters
It’s Raining Men
Unbreak My Heart
Locomotion
Let’s Hear It For The Boy
Don’t Cry For Me, Argentina
My Heart Will Go On
Respect
Everybody Dance Now

You’d think it wasn’t possible to be gayer, wouldn’t you?

Well, you’d be wrong.

Because I rollerbladed to the gym and back.

First order of business: I must add him, him, and her to the list of people to whom I owe a debt of gratitude for their boundless generosity in suggesting publicity avenues for my upcoming book. I would offer you all free sex, even the girl, but my boyfriend has forbidden me.

Second order of business: everyone must go here to see the 50s movie Are You Popular?, a brilliant coup de cinéma that has forced me to reevaluate my entire approach to socializing. Evidently my parking in cars with the boys at night, which I had previously thought was the key to popularity, has actually been getting in my way the whole time. Thanks to her for the link. I would offer you free sex, but it wouldn’t make any sense.

Third order of business: as of yesterday, I am New York Sports Club’s newest group fitness instructor. Hardly surprising, given my recent triumph, but pleasing nonetheless. I’ll be teaching this Saturday at 23rd and Park at 9:30 (step) and 10:30 (sculpt), if anybody wants to come by. I would offer you free sex, but I can’t imagine any of you will be up before noon.

Among our many pastimes, E.S. and I count discussing our theoretical future wedding as one of our favorites. This is because our almost mutually exclusive approaches to the event allow for maximum conflict and arguing. I want to get married in St. Mark’s Basilica in Venice, wearing morning clothes, the most formal attire known to western man. If E.S. had his way, we would wear shorts and T-shirts and get married on a cliff in the middle of nowhere in the wilderness. I usually believe that the benefits of dating him outweigh the fact that he is obviously a madman, but this makes me not so sure.

Eventually, after a great many frustrating conversations, we have been able to reach a compromise: we will have an outdoor wedding in morning coats. This satisfies both my need for a wedding marked by formality and E.S.’s inexplicable and irritating desire to have a wedding that involves nature.

We realized recently, however, that our problems, far from being solved, have in fact only just begun, because “morning coats” describes a fairly finite set of garments, while “outdoor” can be interpreted in a number of different ways. When we made the compromise I was thinking of something like the New York Botanical Garden, or perhaps Fort Tryon Park near the Cloisters. I proposed both of these alternatives to E.S. the other day and he looked at me as if I had just grown a third arm. “No,” he said condescendingly. “We’re going to go to a forest upstate and find a clearing and get married there.”

I was appalled. “But where will the food be for the reception?” This was the least of my worries, but E.S. is a practical man and it seemed best to deal with this on his level.

“It’ll be off to the side, on tables. We’ll eat buffet style.”

“And where will our guests sit?” I asked, desperation mounting in my voice.

“People will just stand in a circle.”

I felt a panic attack coming on. “No one is standing in a circle at my wedding. If we’re getting married outdoors we’re bringing chairs for the guests.”

“Oh, come on. They can sit if you want them to sit but we don’t have to bring chairs.”

“Really?” I was almost shrieking by now. “Then where will they sit?”

“On the beautiful green earth.”

I’m not making this up. He actually said “on the beautiful green earth.”

“That’s it,” I said. “We’re getting married in St. Mark’s.”

Finally we just left well enough alone, recognizing that we weren’t going to solve this problem in one conversation. But later that evening, I had a frightening thought.

“You realize,” I said, “that we’re sending out engraved invitations.”

“No, we’re not.”

“Then how will our friends know about the event?”

“We’ll just tell them.”

Clearly I need to find a new boyfriend, one who isn’t insane, and marry him instead.

On Sunday E.S. and I went to get manicures and pedicures.

I have been after him for months and months to do this with me. He claims always to have been willing but says he “just wasn’t feeling it.” Since he had dragged me to Brooklyn the day before to go to Target–I must be in love with this man if I’m willing to suffer such indignities for him–I told him he had to get a manicure and pedicure with me the next day, or else.

Since there are three Korean nail salons on every Manhattan block, it wasn’t difficult to find one near E.S.’s apartment. The pedicures went exactly as one would expect them to, but then when our nail experts beckoned us over for our manicures, there weren’t two seats next to each other, so we ended up being separated by a thirteen-year-old girl. All was well until, while our cuticles were being trimmed, the girl looked up and over to her mother, sitting on the other side of me, with a helpless expression on her face. “Mom . . . I . . . this isn’t good . . . I want the other . . .” Finally, she managed to express that she was dissatisfied with the job her manicurist had done.

“You must tell me what you want,” said her manicurist in an almost incomprehensible accent. “I ask if you want cut, you say no, I put cut away. If you want cut, you tell me.” The girl continued to look helpless; she was finally able to communicate, by means of half-voiced whines, that she thought her manicurist was incompetent, and she wanted a replacement manicurist to finish her up.

JAP bitch, I thought. With your hair and that nose, you have bigger problems to worry about than fingernails.

The replacement manicurist did a good job cutting what the first manicurist had failed to cut, and began to paint the girl’s nails, a lovely peach color. As my nails were being buffed, though, the tiny sounds started again. “This is . . . this is wrong . . . I should have . . . I should have stayed with the first one . . . could I . . . ?”

The first manicurist said no, she couldn’t. Then she said something in Korean to another manicurist; I didn’t understand it, but it seemed to contain the word “psycho.”

The girl’s face crumpled.

And in an instant my perception of her changed utterly. I felt a rush of pity for her. That’s not whining I hear I thought. It’s crippling doubt. You’re not a JAP bitch. You just have an anxiety disorder.

“Oh . . . this is . . . why . . . why did I do that?”

Her mother answered in a voice dripping with contempt, “Because there’s something wrong with you.”

Scratch that, I thought. You have an anxiety disorder and a terrible mother. When E.S. and I got up to leave, our nails impeccably cleaned and shaped, the girl had the nail polish in hand, trying with trembling fingers to finish the job none of the manicurists in the shop would touch now.

E.S. and I went to have dinner but the whole time all I wanted to do was run back and save her.

I just got back from the gym, where I taught a Step ‘n’ Sculpt class.

Because I was dawdling at home beforehand, I ran out the door without checking to make sure I had everything I needed with me.

As a result, I ended up having to teach the class in a t-shirt, shorts, sneakers–and black socks.

This may very well be my last post ever, as I am about to die of shame.

I don’t understand how I could possibly have missed the phenomenon that was Oolong, but I can’t thank her enough for introducing me to him.

Though he shuffled off this mortal coil three months ago today, his spirit lives on. Rest in peace, Oolong.

I’m looking at what I wrote yesterday and wondering: why, oh, why didn’t I use the line “I’m going out a youngster, but I’ve got to come back a star”?

A few weeks ago, I auditioned to teach step aerobics at New York Sports Club. For those of you unfamiliar with the gymography of New York, NYSC is the McDonald’s of the bunch: there are classier gyms, but this one can’t be beat for convenience, as there are some 50 locations in New York. You can’t walk two blocks without bumping into one. Landing a gig at New York Sports Club (which would allow me to teach at any of the locations) would be a clear and unmistakable advance in my fitness career, the high point of which has heretofore been filming an exercise video for smack and coke junkies.

So I went to the audition and was disheartened to see that there were 30 people there, until I found out that 24 of them were auditioning to teach hip-hop classes, which heartened me right back up again. Each auditioner taught ten minutes of a class made up of all the other auditioners. The 24 hip-hop dancers went first–I was surprised and pleased that I managed not to break my neck, as I am not a hip-hop dancer–and then came the steppers. There were three of us, and I have to say that I was by far the best. One of the other two was competent but boring, and the other seemed not to have a musical bone in her body. Perhaps her cochlea was musical, but that didn’t help her step to the beat. I was enthusiastic and peppy (two qualities I can fake in abundance when necessary) and taught a combination that was both interesting and clear.

So of course I didn’t get the job. “We loved your energy,” said the woman I spoke to on the phone a few days later, “but you were too bouncy.”

She was referring to a very particular physical element of my technique rather than my personality, but still I think that’s got to be the best reason anyone has ever been turned down for a job. “We really liked you,” she said, “so we want you to work on that and come back in a month or two.”

And I was like, Oh, don’t you worry about THAT, missy.

During the next several classes I taught, I focused on being less bouncy; I also met with him to get some pointers. Before long I had eliminated all bounce from my stepping, and I knew that when I auditioned again I would blow her out of the water, along with the 24 hip-hop dancers.

Fast-forward to Tuesday. I went to my local New York Sports Club to take a step class; I finished breakfast late and had to run, but I got there on time–only to find out that the scheduled teacher had been in a car accident. “They’ve called somebody,” said one of the other students, “but they don’t know when she’s getting here.”

I may have many flaws, but failing to recognize an opportunity when it stares me in the face is not among them. I flew upstairs to the general manager’s office, introduced myself, and offered to teach the class.

It was fabulous, and I’m meeting with the woman who originally auditioned me in a week and a half.

Too bouncy, my ass.