Last night I finally had my date with the guy who responded to my Drip profile and then stood me up.
It was a mildly extraordinary event. We hit it off: we laughed, we joked, we scorned people, we talked about opera and Miss Manners, we discovered that I knew his roommate, who had actually tried unsuccessfully to set us up at one point, we had a generally fabulous time.
And I wasn’t attracted to him at all.
Not that he wasn’t an attractive fellow; quite the contraryhandsome in a very manly, wholesome way. But there wasn’t a single spark of physical chemistry between us.
I have no idea what to do. I can’t very well e-mail him and say, hey, it was great to meet you, I’m not attracted to you, let’s be friends but in a completely nonromantic way.
Of course, he hasn’t e-mailed me either, so maybe he feels the same way.
Or maybe he just hated me.